🌸 Behavior or Becoming — “Learning Myself Out Loud” – Black Girlhood Unfolded

🌸 Behavior or Becoming — “Learning Myself Out Loud”

Sometimes grown-ups might think you have an “attitude” when you’re just learning how to express yourself. You’re not being grown — you’re growing.

💬 Story

“When my teacher told me to redo my paper, I sighed and rolled my eyes. She said, ‘Don’t roll your eyes.’ But I wasn’t mad — I was just tired. I wanted her to know I was trying my best.”


💖 Let’s Talk

Eye rolll continuum

Ingroup/Outgroup dynamics

  • How do you show your feelings when you’re upset or tired?
  • What are other ways to show frustration without getting in trouble?

What do you wish adults understood about you?


🎨 Activity

“Inside-Out Comic”
Draw two comic panels: one showing what you did, and one showing what you felt inside. Then title it “I wasn’t mad — I was…”

–leave the emotion open, dont label


💞 Affirmation

“My behavior is how I communicate. I can use my words and my calm.”

🍎 Talk Together Prompt

“Ask an adult to tell you one time they were misunderstood as a kid.”

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